If this thread doesn't fit in in the category/website I am so sorry, but I felt like this was the best place I could find where I could ask this question. So, I'm a girl, soon to be 18 and not really comfortable in typical feminine clothing: dresses, blouses, clothing that shows some more skin, cleavage etc. This is something that doesn't bother me a lot in my everyday life, because I can totally get away with wearing just t-shirts and stuff like that. But, recently I have started going to parties and soon I'm old enough for clubbing. This means that a t-shirt sometimes isn't acceptable, and I'm kind of expected to wear the kind of clothes that I mentioned earlier. This makes me feel kinda uncomfortable because I just never know what to wear? I don't have any friends to ask because we don't share the same style, they just recommend me a dress. I have worn a (quite basic) long-sleeved shirt, and I feel like I can't wear that all the time...It gets kinda boring. So please, all help is welcome! Also, sorry if this thread isn't supposed to be here...
I'd classify this as gender expression, so you're good. You might be able to find a more conservative sweater that is fancy enough. Perhaps you could wear a button up shirt. My sister usually wears cardigans when she doesn't feel like revealing too much. What is it, exactly, that discomforts you about more traditionally feminine clothing?
Maybe a fancy top and skinny jeans? Some cool shoes to go with that, and you have a variety of options with shoes, high heels, but it can be sneakers if you you prefer, boots... A shirt sounds like a good idea too.
Button-up dress shirts and nice sweaters are a pretty safe bet when dressing-up. There`s also women`s sport jackets (blazers) you could put on top if you want to look a bit more formal and some nice slacks.
