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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by SC12, Mar 31, 2018.

  1. SC12

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    Lame thread title, I know but it's all I've got! ☺️

    I'm a 27 year old woman and apparently I'm bisexual. I literally 'found out' last month. That's a weird way to describe it but that's how it feels. It pretty much came out of the blue with no trigger, as far as I can see.

    I guess I'm just feeling pretty confused. Not about my sexuality but how I was so unaware. I've spent a long time wondering if I've been missing/suppressing signs but I know I haven't. It's just never been there until now.

    I've told a few people, close friends and my brother, and they've been great.

    I suppose I'm here to talk to people who get what I'm going through. So, hi!
     
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    Hi! I’m pansexual. It was pretty weird for me when I realised too. I never thought I wasn’t straight. Then I liked a girl (I’m biologically female). And my confusion continued from there... until I finally figured it out. XD
     
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    Welcome :slight_smile:

    I'm a lesbian and it took me until the beginning of my twenties until I truly realized (even though I kind of had a relationship with a girl/woman as a teenager - but I thought it was just because I was too shy/nervous to date a guy ). When I came out to myself I felt so silly for not realizing sooner. Sometimes we just don't see what we're not ready to see.

    I know the feeling of having felt so unaware and then suddenly have it dawn on you. I try just to be happy it happened eventually :slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome! Like you, I didn't realize until my twenties. Mine sprung up on me as well, however there were definitely signs looking back.
     
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    Thank you. It helps to hear from others that have been through the same confusion