So, I have been best friends with this guy for well over 4 years. I am very attracted to him and would love to give him a BJ. He is straight, however he has messed around with guys before. He has also told me flat out that he would let me suck him off. We are both very chill about what we do sexually and I highly doubt there would be any awkward tension afterwards. Since our conversation about him letting me give him a BJ, he has done the following: ·Casually mentioned me giving him a BJ. ·Talked in detail about getting head and asked if I was "flustered" as if to gauge if I wanted to give him head. ·Talked about sleep issues. I said I wished I could help. He then mentions that he would sleep better if he got laid (the corrolation makes me think he was saying he'd sleep better if I gave him head). ·let me playfully grab his thigh just millimeters away from his crotch (only reason I didn't grope him is because people came into the room). So, my questions are... Does it sound like he wants me to give him a BJ? Or could I be letting my desires read too far into this? If he does want me to, I know he won't initiate. So, how do I go about finally offering him the BJ?
He's probably not completely straight, and if what you are saying is accurate, it does sound like he's sort of suggesting/encouraging the idea. Whther or not you take him up on it is entirely up to you. It may change your friendship, but if you're willing to take that gamble, then... well, you can see where it goes.
It sounds to me like this would be a very one sided arrangement. If you are happy with that then go ahead. Next time he mentions that he lets guys give him head, I would playfully ask whether he ever returns the favour even if its just a handy or if he leaves guys with blue balls.
Dude he's definitely ok with it - it can't get any more clear than him literally saying he would let you do it. I also agree he doesn't sound straight at all, unless he's just super desperate and will take anything sexual he can get from anyone.
I mean, he says he's straight, but he's probably more hetero-romantic and bisexual. Like I said, I'm not worried about something like this changing our friendship. Not with all the shit we've been through. Despite that, he told me that he would be fine with me doing it. But, how should I go about initiating it??
Honestly if you both are fine with it, just go in and ask him. (as someone else said, it seems like you both want this) Something along the lines of "hey, so you know all those times you said that you would be fine with me giving you a blowjob? Well do you actually want to set up a time for that? Because if you do I'm down." Something like that. Hope to talk with you soon! -k
Well, there is some friendship risk as things could go badly, but things could also open up between you two. Just make sure you are ok with the possible outcomes. You could give him a BJ and it’s awesome, but he’s one and done.... it could be hard for you because you might want more. It could be a disaster and you lose his friendship or it could be the start of something wonderful. Personally, I’d take a shot... but I’m probably a little desperate.
