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is it normal if sexual fantasies are stronger than porn?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by dudette, Mar 21, 2018.

  1. dudette

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    This might sound weird but I used to watch porn as a teen, but then I stayed away from it for more than a year.
    Now when I watch it then I do not get so much aroused by it like I used to. Ironically I find it strange now.
    However, there are still some fragments of pornographic videos which turn me on. (fragments of specific porn videos turn me on, but not the whole video). Why?
     
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    Any specific fragments or is it just random?
     
  3. dudette

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    specific fragments, yea
     
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    People grow, and their interests change. You're being entirely too analytical about this whole process.
     
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    I just find it strange what I used to see in it. Like was it just these specific fragments in some videos or was there something more.
     
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    I use to watch loads when I was younger then I ended up chucking a load away because they didn't interest me. I kept a few favourites sometimes just for a particular scene but yeah sometimes I find it's a specific thing that interests me more then the overall film or scene.
     
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    When I watch porn videos, there is usually specific parts that I like and I'm often like, "okay get to the good part" or in some cases if they've been doing one thing for too long, I'll say "okay that's enough, let's move on to something different." Of course I may have a bit of ADD, so that could explain it.