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Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by Garm147, Mar 16, 2018.

  1. Garm147

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    So... I need your help and advice.. My GF (for the last 15 years) just told me that she was abused by her uncle and also godfather when she was 13 (almost 30years ago).
    I'me afraid of being unable to help her... Or what i should do...
    Any advice or something?
     
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    The book "Allies In Healing" by Laura Davis can help partners of the survivor understand.
     
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    Listen
    Offer a Shoulder to lean on,
    A heart to help hers mend
     
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  5. Garm147

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    Thanks for your replies. I really needed to say, tell this to someone. I hope I'm be the support she needs