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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Chayla, Mar 11, 2018.

  1. Chayla

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    Hey , i’m 13 turning 14 June 22 . I’m lesbian looking for new friends or a relationship kinda , maybe . Possibly moving to Kentucky soon but stay in Louisiana . soooo hmu if you want to talk or whatever and i’ve also haven’t came out to anyone besides my cousin and ex .
     
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    Hello Chayla! Welcome to EC. I just joined recently too. If you ever want to discuss anything or just chat then let me know!
     
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    My name is Kameron by the way
     
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    Welcome to EC Chayla . We are so glad to meet you and I know that you will find lots and lots of great people here and tons of support . You will come out when you feel it is the right time to do so , do not let anyone tell you that you have to do it any sooner than you are comfortable with . It is your life and you are the one who has to deal with the end results . I am glad that you are here and cant wait to hear how you are doing . Have a great day .
     
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    Chayla...Welcome to empty closets!! Hey...you can come out to who ever you want to when ever you want to and no one else should make that choice but YOU! Have a great week.
    .....David :gay_pride_flag:
     
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    Welcome to Empty Closets!
     
  7. Chayla

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    Thxxx you too
     
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    thank you
     
  9. Chayla

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    cool cool you can message me anytime .
     
  10. Chayla

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    Thank you , i’ve came from a really religious family and i can’t stand how i accepting they are . it’s got to the point where i’ve bedn asking to go to.boarding school to get away from them .
     
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    I am sorry that you are not happy with you home life I truly am . If I am understanding you correctly you say that they are asking you to move away for school because of you sexuality .
    Now this is just my thoughts and opinions so please do not take this as something that you should do . If it was me I would think of it as a good thing ,let me try to explain what I mean . I look at it as there loss and if they do not want you there and they are not supportive in your time of need then you don't need that added stress in your life . Look at it as a new chapter in your life and who knows what that chapter will hold for you . I want to say take your time in making and decisions and try not to rush into anything if you can help it .I know that people that are not accepting can make things difficult and make you miserable and that is never a good thing . Just know that you EC family is here and we are ready to lend an ear and a shoulder to cry on if you need it , I know that I am . Well I better get down off my soap box and step back and let the others here try to help with there thoughts and concerns .
    I wish you the best and may you find the person of your dreams and have many many happy years together !!
     
  12. Chayla

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    no, i’m trying to move away from them
     
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    Hey Chayla, and welcome to EC! From my experience, people on here are friendly and willing to talk, so I'm sure you'll be able to make plenty of new friends. I'm sorry that your family is unaccepting. I wish you the best of luck in being able to go to boarding school or to any place that you like and are happy in. Just let me know if you ever want to talk.
     
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    Well Chayla I wish you the best and I hope all goes well with you and your moving away from where you are . Just know that if you need to talk please know that we are here for ou and will be glad to listen and chat as much as you need . :slight_smile:
     
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