I'm so frustrated with this subject. I don't label myself as ANYTHING but female. I'm not even sure what race i am to be honest. I'm all mixed up and not accepted by anyone as "theirs". I'm proud to be a woman. I don't like girly things like makeup or spend hours on my hair or anything. . But I do shave and I do wear women's clothing, even the occasional comfy dress at (home only lol ) but enjoy auto mechanics and construction and playing Mrs Fix-it! I spent most of my life married to men... 3 failed marriages, 5 children. Never could look at their genitals or even flirt very well. Spent my whole life watching lesbian porn which I'm now told everyone EXCEPT lesbians watch... I'm told I'm bisexual Bc I spent most my life with men. Now in my first lesbian relationship, with a stud no less... still have my fantasies unreleived but whatever... we have love and a beautiful friendship and I already know that's incredibly rare. I'm satisfied. I'm happy. But I'm so annoyed with all these labels... I guess I'm chapstick yeah okay that I agree with 100%... but am I bi- even tho I'm not even attracted to men and absolutely refuse to ever engage in relationships with men ever again, but simply Bc of my past... No I don't care much what people think BUT I am really confused with all this... LOL. Opinions anyone?
Well if you're not attracted to men and you're only attracted to women then that makes you homosexual. You said you never could look at their [men's] genitals which suggests that you have never been attracted them sexually, even when you did date them. The chapstick/stud sort of labels are just descriptions used in the lesbian community to describe what kind of partner you are, it doesn't change anything about your sexuality.
