Hi I'm 18 and openly gay. A much older guy keeps texting me and I think he really likes me. I also like him but he's 27. He has asked me if I want to go round his so he can f**k me and we can do it and stuff. I don't know what to do I'm nervous but I want to what should I do ??
Age gaps are less of a problem as you get older. At your age, however, a 9 year age gap is quite a lot. You're just barely an adult. I would suggest that you limit any age gap to just a few years. Just my opinion.
A guy you hardly know, who is quite a bit older than you is coming onto you, inviting you round to his place so he can "f*ck you" and it's making you feel nervous. I think you should be very cautious and listen to your feelings. At this stage, you would be better focusing on people closer to your age, especially if you want a deeper relationship.
Mind you this is just my opinion but if he's telling you he wants to "F*** You" that sounds like EXACTLY what he wants and once he's ridden the horse and sent you out to pasture you'll be nothing more to him than another checkmark in his big book of conquests.
I concur. At your age, there will be a million older guys hitting on you. All of them will, in one way or another, be controlling, whether they intend to or not. I would strongly suggest finding someone closer to your own age. I think you will have a much happier and healthier relationship that way.
It doesn't sound like he "really likes" you, it sounds like he just wants to have sex with you. Think about what you want for yourself because it doesn't seem like he's thinking about what you want, he's just thinking about what he wants from you. I agree with others who have said stick to people closer to your age. If you are having doubts then it is best to play it safe.
Gut feelings related to dating, relationships, and sex are things you should absolutely pay attention to. If you get a bad feeling, or you have way too many concerns about someone's intentions, and the place, town, or area you might be traveling to, I would take heed and not allow yourself to go through with it. Blind or semi-blind hookups I've never felt good about.
