Do openly bisexual males usually end up with husbands or wives?

I think it can go either way. There is a lot of prejudice towards bisexual people though, borne out a false assumption that they can't make up their mind and are therefore incapable of monogamy. In reality, bisexuals are just as capable of monogamy.

 

I agree it PatrickUK
It depends on who you fall in love with the girl or the guy

 

Imho I feel like there are many more straight (and bi) women compared to gay and bi guys, so I feel like statistically speaking bi guys have greater odds finding a gf and eventually wife.

 

I guess there could be dozens of factors why I know more bi girls than bi guys (maybe because I know more girls? Lmao). But regardless, with straight people of one gender of another in your dating pool, it'd be larger than the gay people of the same gender in your dating pool.

 

Part of the reason for that is because when people think about bisexuality, they think of stereotypes. For example: Bisexuals don't exist; we're responsible for the spread of HIV and other STIs; we can choose to be gay or straight; or that we are actually gay or straight.
Because of that bisexuals suffer from higher levels of depression, anxiety, and self-harm than any other sexual orientation.

 

I definitely agree. I think U.S. culture puts a lot of pressure on guys to be more "masculine", therefore making it seem more socially terrifying for guys to come out. And, since bisexual guys have the option of choosing to be with a female for the rest of their lives (just as I, a bisexual female, have the option to be with a male for the rest of my life), they may just choose to never come out, just as I almost chose. Bisexuality is very real, it may just be harder for guys in our culture to admit to publicly.

 

More bisexual men are closeted than bisexual women and that's the result of the stereotypes that are worse for bisexual men than for bisexual women (like for example the one I hear the most a man who has sex with other men is always gay).

 

I think saying most bisexual men are closeted is a bit much but Its not an unsupported statement
https://bisexual.org/what-keeps-bi-men-in-the-closet/

 

Openly, I would think same-sex. A lot of closeted bisexual men are in straight relationships, but once they come out, are basically seen as gay, and their reasons for coming out in the first place is to live a more authentic life, which usually involves same-sex experiences.

 

According to the Sociaal en Cultureel Planbureau in the Netherlands in 2012
50 percent of men with bisexual feelings didn't tell it to anyone (only 3 percent of gay men didn't tell it to anyone)
14 percent of women with bisexual feelings didn't tell it to anyone (only 2 percent of lesbians didn't tell it to anyone)

So not most bisexual men are closeted but a lot of them are indeed.

 

In my case, I consider myself bisexual based on technical gray areas. I am Gay, but my physical attraction to women still exists from when I was Straight. And the transition from Straight to Gay for me was surprisingly fast. Like, in just a few weeks the shift happened, and I came to grips with it over the following months.

But that's not all, I also think while I find certain kinds of typically handsome guys attractive, I think I have a specific attraction towards feminine guys, androgynous non-binaries, and trans-women. Which means I'm actually Pansexual.

It feels like bisexuals or pansexuals will have subtle shifts from time to time in who they find attractive or who attracts them, if they're even out about it. Bisexuality can make it (at least appear) easier to conceal one's homosexual feelings. So there's probably no likely or more likely scenario for who a bisexual person will end up with. But my gut level feeling is that either comfortable Bisexual people are simply super-open to who they love, or, to use an analogy, they have a Major in Homosexuality and a Minor in Heterosexuality.