I tried bottoming many times and I always choose average size penises and it never works out no matter what I do! A 10 inch guy tried to top me and I refused, he said I can stop him if I feel pain so I agreed. He easily topped me and I did not even feel pain which was shocking! I tried with another hung person and the same thing happened was very easy. Its weird because I hear the opposite of my experience that I shouldnt bottom with big penises and its more painful.
Any size can hurt if there is insufficient preparation or a lack of consideration on the part of the top. To avoid pain it's important to relax, use lots of good lube (reapplying when necessary), communicate, take time and be considerate... and play safe. If the top forces his way in with hardly any lube and then proceeds to bang away like a rabbit it's going to hurt, whether he is 4 inches or 10 inches. Fortunately, most bigger guys understand the need to take it steady if sex is going to be a pleasant experience for both. Life is not a porn movie. If you are bottoming you should be an active participant and not just lie there and take it. That's not good (or healthy) sex.
Don't know. I have been screwed by only one.... Hope sufficiently big. Never been hurt but have always felt very sweet slow spasm.
Body shape and style has a lot to do with what a receptive partner finds acceptable and was is Uh Uh NO! THAT Ain't happening honey!" A slender petite male may fantasize as a size queen only to find the reality is akin to being placed on one of Vlad the Impaler's death stakes and a large boned meaty bottom will realize a small penis partner simply won't have enough length to penetrate deep enough to provide a full measure of pleasure. In the oh so true words of Clint Eastwood, "A man has got to know his limitations."
Sorry that was rude im actually just very self concious about my penis size and dont jnow how to bring it up so i tried being a jackass but really am interested if anyone has an idea how many straight girls are into anal and how to bring it up, i no its a gay siggt but im bi and also if i cant satisfy girl im with how likley is tgat relationship to last? Do sone girls prefer small penisis ? In any ones opinion if i was in a rekationship , had sex for the first time and didnt do anything for her, but the rest of the relationship was great but she was really into sex and has to fulfill needs would sone girls be into an open relationship? I tell her she can have sex with whowver i dont care i jus wanna be wit her and want her to be able to be pleasured so are relationship doesnt suffer? Obviously a big part is me not being jelous but if i could make it work does anyone have a comment on if any girls and how many on average would be into this?
I think the pain pleasure depends on the synchronization of thrusts. I enjoy slow slow insertion. When he is deep inside me he keeps in that position for long minutes, using that time caressing, kissing fondling with my small nipples and cuddling me. After a few moments I fell the pleasure of my involuntarily contracting rectum pushing it out. Before it comes out he starts pushing it up again. My rectal muscles flutter and relax again, allowing him to again slowly insert his full length. We are so perfectly synchronized. He never rushes through very quick pumping. And my pleasure can only be felt, not described. I thus feel it has nothing to do with the size. That must be your case of enjoying a bigger sized lover, better.
