What is the one trait that you want in your partner, and why?

"'Put up with your moods' yes my one mood if not giving a shit"
-the anime man

 

Someone who understands that I'm not always up to communication, and if they want to talk they most likely have to reach out first and be patient with me. Most of my friends get pissed at me because I don't message them or talk to them a lot (because of my depression), so somebody who understands that and knows that it doesn't mean I love them any less is really ideal for me.

 

One who is not afraid of being honestly intimate. Not afraid of closeness (emotionally, physically, etc.).

Intellectual would also be a plus. And able to laugh at himself.

I know, that is more than one trait. But that is what I would like to see in him.

 

Honesty

 

If I ever allow another person to be in my life again , the only thing i would ask would be never cheat on me , I don’t expect 100% honesty from her bcoz I understand everyone has a page in life that they don’t want to read out loud even to their love ones ,it might be painful memory one wishes to forget. But cheating is different, I can forgive everything but not cheating

 

That they be kind to me. Understanding rates high too, because I'm neurodivergent so I need someone who gets that and doesn't freak out or tell me to stop taking my pills because psychiatry is bullshit.

 

Maturity and kindness. People always say that I am very naive for my age. So someone who won't be put off by my nature or take advantage of it. A lot of people have done that in the past.

 

Exactly!!!

 

Gentle and kind because I like to be treated with respect.

 

Someone's who is understanding and patient. Someone who isn't flaky. Someone who has a good sense of humor. Someone who can make me feel better when I feel sad.

 

1) Someone who enjoys talking or verbal affection, long discussions, and sharing.

2) At my age, someone who's not married or too emotionally strung out for a serious relationship.

 

A person who is kind and treats me with respect. Someone who loves me for who I am and accepts me 100%. I want to know that they will be there for me through good times and bad times.

 

A person who is caring and honest, understanding of my difficulties and would be nice if he is romantic too.

 

Somebody who loves himself. I don't mean in a narcissistic poser sort of way because that's a turn off. But somebody who loves his own company and has activities and subjects he is passionate about and likes to focus on. Because that's what I'm like - I enjoy being single and having time to focus on things that are meaningful to me. My ideal partner would be someone who shares these interests with me, but also likes to do his own thing so I can do my own thing as well. I don't want somebody who wants to be with me just because they hate being single.

 

I could have easily written that!
Understanding, kind, honest, patient, treats me with respect and be there for me. someone not afraid to show affection. Because I will be all this and more for him.