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What was the best and worst part of the year?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Naters2000, Dec 31, 2017.

  1. Naters2000

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    My best was making new friends that love me, and the worst was one of those friends being torn from me, and my parents acting hatefully toward me and my homosexuality.

    What about you?
     
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    Best: I had my first kiss
    Worst: failing psychology this semester
     
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    Best and worst: I started my new job. It’s great that I’m working and that I’ve got money now, but it’s stressful and overwhelming for me. So it’s literally been the best of times & the worst of times lol.
     
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    Best: Finding out my true gender.
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    Worst: Finding out my mom has cancer or my grandpa dying.

    Best: Making a few new friends and coming out
     
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    The best part was coming out to my fiends at school and having my teacher call me by my correct name and pronouns.
    The worst part was coming out to my family and being threatened instead of accepted.
     
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    Best - visiting Florida again after a 10 year gap
    Worst - getting too emotional thinking about a past relationship
     
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    Best - Coming out and confirming my true gender

    Worst - My aunt passing away and not being able to make it to the funeral, same goes for not being able to visit family for the holidays (second year in a row). Finding out I have depression.
     
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    Best - singing.
    Worst - I have less physical health than the year before >.<
     
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    The best thing without question for me was getting closer to this absolutely amazing boy I've known for a couple of years now. I began the year in a really bad place as I had essentially lost him, but somehow our relationship was revived right after I was convinced I had talked to him for the final time. It has been such a pleasure to see how much he's grown as a person over the past year, built up his confidence, and achieved so much success. Most of all he's given me something to look forward to and care about every single day and that is incredibly valuable to me. For a while I truly felt like I was his best friend and the person he enjoyed talking to the most and that was magical to me.

    The worst I'd say is the way the year ended. I don't know what it is -- I absolutely love Christmas but get depressed by New Years, and I ended the year with very little hope for my future. I'm another year older, still a virgin, still no prospects of anyone ever feeling anything for me, just totally deflated. There's some things I'm frustrated with at work, I won't see my parents, grandparents, or anyone who cares about me for at least a few months, and overall I just feel like I'm about to be in for a very lonely year. Hopefully history repeats itself and I end up having an overwhelmingly positive year despite gloominess at the start, but I won't hold my breath on that.
     
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    Best: finding an awesome new friend.

    Worst: a homeless man attempting to rob me at knifepoint at a bus stop (I say attempting to because I had no money so... he pretty much just gave up and left).
     
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    Best: I met new friends, learned new lessons, and have loved myself more.
    Worst: I have committed so many mistakes and I can never correct it.
     
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    Best: finally coming out to myself and befriending some nice, queer people.

    Worst: still not being out to friends, family and classmates.
     
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    Worst: my grandpa dying
    Best: getting my dog
     
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    Best: Really coming to terms with my sexuality.

    Worst: Take your pick. My grandma died, my dad had multiple serious health issues including fighting cancer, and to end it all I got hit by car, spent three weeks in the hospital (including Christmas), and now I have to hop on one leg for the next month.
     
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    Best: Getting my first boyfriend, especially since my boyfriend was actually my best friend before we were dating.

    Worst: Grandma dying.
     
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    Best: I discovered my bisexuality

    Worst: I lost my job.
     
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    Worst: My former boss passing away
    Best: I passed all my classes in my first semester, and I just passed the one course I was stressing about in my first year of the second semester.
    -I found some better LGBT+ apps, and I met a cute girl who I've been messaging back and forth for a few weeks now.
     
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    Best- cutting my hair so I sometimes pass as a guy and accepting my sexuality

    Worst- depression, coming out to my parents as trans, finding out that one of the four people who knew I was trans (besides my parents) started telling people, being outed as bi to my school, losing most of my friends, having to wear a dress, getting d's in most of my classes, getting back into the habit of cutting