So, I'm 15, and am looking to transition soon, MtF, but I'm not out yet. Everyone keeps telling me to try wearing women's clothes, but that would just scare me more. I don't want to really stand out. What if I see someone I know? I just don't get how I'm supposed to do that without getting called out constantly. Any help?
I would, but atleast I would be working towards a goal. I just want to feel comfortable with who I am, and if in 5 years, I have a high probability of feeling better, then I will endure the stress until then
Maybe start w/ small stuff? Stuff you can pass off easily that might not be noticed right away. Womens or juniors section plain t-shirts or jeans and undergarments. Buy a nightgown or pj set.
maybe you can try dressing in your room or when you have your house to yourself for a couple hours? i used to do this and it helped.
Try wearing more androgynous clothing from the women's section. Maybe a sweater here or a blouse there. Some unassuming undergarments. Most people don't care where you got your clothes from. You could also try some clear nail polish and light amounts of makeup that would go unnoticed by others, but it would likely make you feel a lot better. I remember when I was younger, I'd stashed away a tie in my closet and I'd hid out the bathroom to put it on. I grew up in a strict religious household and so "crossdressing" was severely punished. But I took solace in androgynous clothes and haircuts, doing my best to ease the dysphoria in ways I noticed but which others tended to overlook. Do what you can, for now. One day you'll be able to rock those dresses. All the best, sister.
Great idea! I will definitely go with the nail polish, and I am going to use some makeup over the next week, and see how I like that. Thanks for all of the help! I'm just amazed as to how nice most of the people on this website are.
