I'm gay/queer or whatever. I'm relatively vanilla. But people seem to think I'm kinky, but straight or bi. I'd say I'm a Kinsey 5-6. On the vanilla to kinky scale I'd say I'm 1 or 2. So they pretty much got it backwards. Is it normal for queer girls to get mistaken for kinky when they're just queer? How about guys?
Tre....No, it's not "normal". However, people tend to make snap judgements based on how someone else looks, dresses, etc. I have no idea if that is the issue in your case! Heck...I'm about 5 on the Kinsey scale (for what that's worth) and no one knows or even suspects that I am gay unless I tell them! .....David
If you wear “edgy” clothes or have certain piercings that could lead people to think you might be a little kinky. Other than that I’m not sure.
people mistake me for a kinky person just by judging on what I wear. I admit I do wear some fetish clothing, but it's just for the aesthetics that is pretty much appealing to me. also, what else could you expect from a goth fun fact: I'm not even interested in sex that much.
