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What are you thinking?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Mirko, Feb 28, 2017.

  1. Hawk

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    1 more day of class, and 2 more days of the show left.
     
  2. Mirko

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    I'd say, try to embrace it. It allows you to see the world through a quite unique lens. That's a good ability to have. :slight_smile:
     
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    It's not when nobody cares. These other unique people don't love me back. Don't get me wrong, I am empathetic towards others, but who's gonna love me?
     
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  4. Mirko

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    So maybe then, try to start loving yourself, by accepting yourself, without looking back and wishing you were different. Usually, when we show that we have some self-love (in a healthy way), can stand on our own ground, people will gravitate towards that. It will make others curious.
     
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    By doing what. In fact I think it's because of that shit is why people hate me.

    Due to how flamboyant I am, people don't like that about me.

    Am I not changing myself for other people. I'd rather be hated than pitied. I'd rather just die, than suffer a depressing life.
     
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    Robert Smith has an amazing voice.
     
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    My writing tactic nowadays just seems to consist of "write whatever random shit comes into my head", even if it has absolutely nothing to do with any of my current projects.

    Oh, well. At least I'm writing something, and at least I like most of what I'm writing.
     
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    Happy December all~
     
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    Oh Lord, gonna embarrass myself tn
     
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    Hi Suomi. I know that you have some things in your life that you would like to change about yourself from seeing some of your previous post. The bad part is you can't change them however I think what Mirko is trying to say is you can't get love from other people until you love yourself. Now not everyone is going to like you, I know plenty of people that could not stand me. What I notice is though that when I do accept myself for me, I find my own crowd with people that can relate to me and do like to be around me.
     
  11. Shoei Loei

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    I absolutely agree...he’s my childhood idol. And unlike most singers, his voice hasn’t changed with age...he’s still a badass.

    Anyways, on to what I’m thinking:
    I’m such a freakin kid...I think I’ll still be a kid when I’m like 70 too lol. Guess that’s just who I am.
     
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    Oh, man, I still feel like this, too. I turned 27 on Monday and still feel like I'm not even out of my teens. It does not feel like I'm closer to 30 than 20. Of course, it doesn't help that I still look like I'm 15. :confused:
     
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    I wish I had a Binder :/
     
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    I'm gonna be real and honest with you, as you wouldn't want me to be fake with you? No you wouldn't.

    When I found out that you hold some conservative opinions, as I'm a black feminine guy. I kinda profiled you in a wrong way.

    As long as you love me, I don't care about that other stuff.

    I mean I wish relationships could be easy like that.

    Now I'm kinda neutral with you, and I really like that post. It makes a lot of sense.

    Saying you need to find your own crowd.

    I really wish I knew who these people were.
     
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    I haven't been here in so long. New forum is kinda freakin' me out.
     
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    I see my own reflection in a mirror in semi-darkness and think I'd actually be a pretty decent-looking guy. I see my not particularly feminine face and the results of two and a half years of working out and realize I wouldn't be bad-looking at all. Then I see myself in full light and realize, until I can properly transition, people will only ever see me as a funny-looking female. It's kind of disheartening. :sweat:
     
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    At what point did I think it was a good idea to book the flight so early in the morning that now I'm afraid of falling asleep because I have to get up in three hours.
     
  18. Shoei Loei

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    I’m 27, soon to be 28 in February, but people often think I look younger too :/
    I’ve had campus security at the school where I teach mistake me for one of the high school students...idk why he thought that, considering I have a very adult, mature body. But I’m short, and I guess I have a young face and a youthful disposition, so I can pass as a 12th grader haha. It can be a blessing and a curse sometimes. So I feel ya :/
    I think my interests are kind of younger than most people my age have...so that could also be a factor lol.
     
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    I'm thinking about how I wish I could fit in more.
     
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