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"I don't define myself by my sexuality"

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Tre, Nov 13, 2017.

  1. Biguy45

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    Not really my taste but thank you for the virtual
    ate you wishing now that you hadn’t responded to this, or are you enjoying it
     
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    Don’t know where that first part came from. Please disregard
     
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    I'm curious what the lesbian personality/vibe is. Genuinely curious btw, not a rhetorical question at all.
     
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    Well, it probably isn't giggling over boys!
     
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    So true.

    Come to think of it, I may give off an asexual vibe more than anything. I think I've only talked about hot people three times this year, and it always surprises my friends when it happens, lol
     
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    I must be your opposite. I’m constantly mumbling about hot people. I wish I was a little less oversexef
     
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    Hmm well from the outside, most people perhaps don't suspect anything. But I would at least partially define myself by my sexuality for many reasons.

    It's just part of who I am which I wouldn't want to change in any way. An issue that I'm finding out more and more is that there's a contrast between those closest to me because they are straight and I am not. If I were to talk to them about dating for example, there would be an obvious difference because I would be referring to someone of the same sex. And then sort of linked to that is a bit of frustration because I want to be able to have the option of dating or relationships when the time is right but some people may not like the idea of me being with someone.

    So all in all, those differences mean that I do define myself by my sexuality in part and I definitely wouldn't change that!
     
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    My sexuality is part of who I am ,but there's more to this hard working gamer than who I'm willing to sleep with or what I want sexually.
     
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    Who I love is a big part of me. I mean, I think about the women I love all the time! So, in that way, it is a defining part of me. If I were asexual that would also be defining because I would probably have more time to think about other things...lol
     
  10. Baby K

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    I really don't define myself by my sexuality . You know if my wife and I are walking down the street holding each others hand many people would of course define us as "Hey, there goes two Lesbians walking down the street." The way I see it is "there goes two people in love with one another walking down the street." To me why do people have to put a certain label on everything? I don't see the need to talk about my sexuality all the time either. I am much more well rounded person than just my sexuality. So sure, I love my wife and if people want to call me a Lesbian I am fine with that but to be honest if that is all they see in me they really don't know who I really am because I am way more than just that. So I think that is why I try to stay away from defining myself as just that because it truly doesn't tell 100% who I am.
     
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