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Dildo tips?

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Umberson379, Nov 18, 2017.

  1. Umberson379

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    Been trying to using dildos for a while now but not using them as often as i want to. One of my issue's is that i can't really find a comfy position to ride/use them. Also cleaning myself out can be a but tedious at times, been trying more fiber and i think its been helping reduce any "unwanted things" getting on my toy's but its still a bit tedious at times, sometimes i just wanna use my toys without worrying about enima cleaning n junk.

    Been talking to friends about what they do and they say they don't really need to do a bunch of cleaning and fiber stuff. So confused. Also been looking for a place online to find quality toys like butt plugs n junk but no luck.
     
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    Are you using suction cup dildos that can stick to surfaces? It’s surprising what they will stick to haha
     
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    Yeah but one has a weak suction cup while the other is sorta strong but can pop off, it also has a rougher texture which makes me wonder if i should be using it at all.
     
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    I would recommend using a suction cup dildo on the wall, and back into it, or on a chair and sit on it. That’s what I usually do. As far as the cleanliness goes, just evacuate first and clean your self. It’s still going to get dirty sometimes though
     
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    Oh mine are smooth, they have popped off if I lean too much but they do have a bit of bend in them haha I don’t do anal though maybe the guys on here will have some better advice.
     
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    The ones I have are pretty strong suction cup wise. If you get too carried away, they can slip,but I’ve been pretty rambunctious with them and it’s been fine. Mine are realistic Dick shaped so there are veins but still fairly smooth. I would check a sex shop and ask for one designed for butt play
     
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    Hmm i'll give it a shot.
     
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    Hoe your figure it out. It can be a lot of fun
     
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    Ehh i don't know about sex shops. I'd be a bit bashful walking into a place like that, i try to order online for stuff like that.
     
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    I understand. Amazon has a pretty good selection, or Adam and Eve
     
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    I got mine from love honey and you can send things back if you don’t like them even if used! They have loads of reviews and discreet packaging.
     
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    Yes there plenty of good sites that are discreet. I would recommend a prostate massager as well. They are great
     
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    Oooh i'll really have to look into that then, how are they're prices?
     
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    Prostate Massager? owo
     
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    It’s a vibrating toy you insert anally. It vibrates against your prostate and can cause an orgasm without even touching yourself, though not usually. I personally think it feels amazing. I’m very butt oriented though
     
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    Sounds wonderful. Any way i should angle it when i use one?
     
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    It should be designed to go right against your prostate when you put it in
     
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    You get what you pay for but they always have deals and product of the day etc
     
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    Using a condom on your dildo can make for easier cleanup.
     
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    Condoms certainly help with clean up.

    Look for silicon or pyrex toys, they will cost more but are made from higher quality materials. And you only need plain ol soap and water to clean them. I would only use a jelly type toy with condoms.

    Stick to a smaller toys with a wide base, keeps the toy from going completely inside you if you get a little too excited about your play.

    And lube, use it liberally, lube is your best friend in the world.