Hello group. I'm 26yrs old have been married for 7yrs and 5 months ago I found my husband calling women for "massages" and recently 2days ago found a phone number for a escort and it's a transsexual. I have nothing against anyone preference of living . I feel horrible we had travel plans and I have cancelled the tickets and even thinking of divorce we have 2 kids together ages 5/6. Idk what to do . He said he's not gay he was just curious to see a video and pic of a man who looks like a women. Our relationship has been rocky this year, I was speaking to someone else then found out so was he after that we decided to but everything aside and work it out so i thought everything was find and 6months later (now) I find this out.
Sounds to me like you guys have more potential problems going on than just his sexuality. From the evidence you've provided, it seems like he could just be curious about things. It could also be more than that, but sexuality isn't just black and white (gay or straight) so I think you might be jumping the gun a bit assuming he is gay (if that is indeed what you are assuming). I'd suggest working on your communication with one another as a first step, as it sounds like you both have secrets you have hidden from each other somewhat recently. Honesty and communication are so important in a relationship, and if you don't have that your relationship is doomed regardless of your husband's sexual orientation. Also, have you confronted him about what you found on his phone?
