My name is Janiah. I’m straight but I thin I’m in love with my friend. She’ marred with kids. I think she’s like me too but then again I don’t. I always thought she was bisexual before I found out that she was married. Last month was my birthday and i got so drunk,I did something stupid and told everyone on my Snapchat that I liked her and I was going to take her from her husband, etc. She haven’t spoke to me since then. I even texted her and said I was sorry for everything i said. But she didn’t text me back. And when I see her at work, she doesn’t speak. I don’t won’t to take her from her husband or anything, i just like her. I feel awful and embarrassed. What else should I do?
Give her some time, first. Leave her alone for awhile, and if she gets over it, she'll do it on her own. You both seem like you need healing, so let that happen.
I want to sit down and talk to her face to face, about what happen before the year is up. I don’t won’t to go into next year with this on my mind.
Back off for a bit and give her some time. If she never talks to you again, you'll definitely have your answer.
In my experience, the more uncomfortable and awkward we feel and act around people, the more uncomfortable they get. Try to forget about what happened and just smile and be friendly and act naturally. We all say stupid things on occasion and you can't change the past. You apologized once and that should be enough, apologizing again will most likely just increase the awkwardness and tension between the two of you. (hug)