Hi. New here. Looking for a friend

Hello. I’m not out to anyone, but if you ever want to talk to a bi man I’m available

 

Hello hoodlum12! Welcome to EC!

 

Cześć! Welcome to EC

 

hey there! i'm pretty much always down to chat if you're looking for friends

 

Hi and welcome to EC! I can relate to being where you are with trying to come to terms with being bisexual. I'm still on the road to acceptance and coming out and am finding as time goes on am identifying more as a lesbian. I'm currently in hetero marriage with 2 kids.

I love to write, watch movies and doco's, I like reading and am into a wide variety of music. Hope you enjoy your time on here, I love it! x

 

of course!! i'm always happy to meet new people (and for me, i'm less shy on the internet than in real life), especially other people who are going through experiences similar to mine. i thought i had my identity all figured out and then i started realizing things that i hadn't known before and i'm kind of struggling to accept some new labels for myself that i hadn't really considered before. it's tough but i have hope! and i really hope that you can accept yourself for who you are soon, too

 

That's pretty understandable. I have memories of suppressing my sexuality at a young age and praying not to be gay because of what my mother would say. Up until about 6 months ago (i'm 32) I believed I would break her heart. But I finally came out to her and my two sisters all in one go and they were great! Mum said she didn't understand it but of course still loved me and accepted me. It was the best feeling! So maybe they will surprise you? Have you ever discussed other gay people to them? Did they have an opinion?

I get it though - when your family is a big part of your identity and being bisexual is also a big part, it feels like you cant be at peace you marry them up. I'm here daily so feel free to ask me anything if you'd like (no need to be shy - although I am very shy in real life ) and just have a look around- everyone is very warm and welcoming and being on here helps tremendously with acceptance.

In the meantime be good to yourself

 

i'm lucky enough to have a large network of lgbt people i know but i still live in the american south where there's a lot of anti-lgbt sentiment overall. with me, i've known i wasn't straight for a long time but i'm only just now starting to come to terms with the fact that i'm probably not cis either. but i am sure that there's some lgbt presence in your country, it's just that most of them probably aren't very open about being lgbt and are harder to find. still, it's good to reach out and find other people!

 

I’ve been living straight my whole life, and I’ve been happily married to my wife for years now. I’m bisexual but I won’t act on it. I see no need to come out if I’m not going to do anything about it. My fear is that as time goes on, the urge to be with a man may get too strong. I don’t just mean sexually, because I have experienced that, I mean emotionally. I’m happy that I’m bi but it could cause problems

 

Hey I'm fine Sorry for responding late, I didn't have much time to look here (stuff like school, etc.). But I really like to be on this forum, even just reading some posts already helped me a bit with my personal life. Fortunately I don't have many struggles regarding my sexuality yet, since I'm from an accepting environment, but there's still some stuff that I'll have to deal with (like coming out to my parents).