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Ideas for pleasurable gay sexual experiences without anal sex?

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by jjc76, Oct 24, 2017.

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  1. jjc76

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    My new partner and I just absolutely love each other. We are emotionally connected in ways that I have never experienced before. But he does not like anal sex. He says he might try it, but I know his heart is not in it. I am more of a bottom, and I find anal sex extremely pleasurable. I love my partner so much and we want to plan out lives together. But I worry about this. I am willing to give up anal sex for him. But can I get some suggestions for other pleasurable ways to enjoy sex without anal. Oral, obviously. Anything else? Thanks, guys.
     
    #1 jjc76, Oct 24, 2017
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    There's plenty of cock fun. Electro, sounding, food! Pour syrup over each others cock and balls then kicking off. Massage........even a prostate massage might help. Mild s&m. Get a tattoo each. Rimming maybe. The list is endless....almost.
     
    #2 Thom1, Oct 25, 2017
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    It should say licking off! Typo!
     
    #3 Thom1, Oct 25, 2017
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    Handjob, rimming, sex toys, frotting, and possible fetishes?
     
    #4 Creativemind, Oct 25, 2017
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    I had a boyfriend who was initially not into anal for a long period of time. Therefore, he was really into frotting, kissing, touching and feeling, oral and rimming. It was great...!!!!
     
    #5 JonSomebody, Oct 25, 2017
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    Of course masturbation should be on the list.

    For you, though, as a bottom you can use dildos and have your partner use dildos on you, so you don't really have to give up bottoming.
     
    #6 I'm gay, Oct 25, 2017
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    Showering together, erotic deep massages, maybe mutual fantasies and masturbation. I like showers the best.
     
    #7 Jackie Ray, Oct 25, 2017
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    Frotting. I prefer that to pretty much anything else tbh
     
    #8 SemiCharmedLife, Oct 26, 2017
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