So, I have a date with this girl on Tuesday. We are going out to lunch between classes. I didn't know for sure she was queer today, and she asked me out for coffee near the end of September. I haven't really dated very seriously, and I want this to be different. How do I be completely confident in making a move, like initiating the first kiss. Some advice please!
Sorry did you mean you do know she is queer or you don't know. Do you defintitely know it's a date date and not just a coffee? Sorry I'm not trying to put a downer on things but I just think it makes a difference to how you make your moves.
Sorry. I was typing too fast. I know for sure that she is queer, cause we were talking and she was talking about how only a few people know that she is bi. And we decided to go for lunch instead of coffee. I'm buying and she's driving. And I'm 99% sure that this is a date. My issue is just on confidence. Though in the past months I have become a bit of a player and hooking up with a lot of girls, I am unsure of how to go about this date. I have never really been with someone I truly care about, and it is terrifying. I'm not expecting this date to result in sex, as it is a first date and we will be going back to school after getting food. I just would like a little advice from some people who have any.
Well I think the best advice anyone can give is to be yourself. Sure you will be nervous but almost certainly so will she. Just talk to her, ask her questions about herself and be friendly. I'm sure you will rock.