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How to deal with the loneliness?

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Kodo, Sep 25, 2017.

  1. Kodo

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    I do not know how to keep on like this. The loneliness is killing me.
     
  2. Enea

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    Why are you lonely, what happened? Sorry but I've not been on the forum for a while so I'm not so updated on what's happened recently :slight_smile:
     
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    Yeah. Is it that you feel lonely at uni? I wrote a post about it some time ago, because I'm dealing with the same problem. I'll copy and paste it and feel free to hit my wall about it.
     
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    try talking to someone, like me i'm always available to take, and while i'm not always on, there's only short intervals of siesta, trust me its nicer to talk to people than to make the mistake like i did and sit around all day watching rupaul and eating icecream, on the bright side, if your like me and wake up one morning after 1 to many tubs of ice cream you'll realize that its time for a change and meet friends at the gym. but i digress, talk to me anytime
     
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    No. Wait. That post was suited to the situation it was about. In general. I think it would help if you added some detail on why you feel lonely.
     
  6. frappuccno

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    I always feel the same way too. But are you lonely because you are not in a relationship or because you have no friends to talk to? If you're looking for a friend, I would be glad to be one of yours. I recently moved to a new country and I don't have any friend. Not that I don't have friends, it is because i am not open to everyone here which is why I feel I don't have friends. To deal with this, I often stick with video game, but mostly i did nothing productive, which i know it is very bad for me!! But you have to find away to get out of loneliness on your own. Be strong my friend.
     
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    I have the same problem with you. I cant fixed it when I am alone. I dont have much friends because it is kind I am not a guy who like hangout to spent time together.
    I need someone beside me, talk or work together. In fact, I am not extrovert guy but lonely has been killing me.
    It is very fun and exciting if someone who beside me is a person I really love.