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Am I just bi curious or actually bisexual?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Jane123omg, Sep 23, 2017.

  1. Jane123omg

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    Location:
    Texas
    Gender:
    Female
    Gender Pronoun:
    She
    Sexual Orientation:
    Straight but curious
    Out Status:
    Not out at all
    It sounds weird asking for help when it comes to my sexuality, but I could really use some help.

    To give some backstory, I'm 18 years old and a female who has always identified as straight. But recently, I've been questioning it. I've been fantasizing about women lately and I've done it abit before, but now it's happening more often. Like I can watch lesbian porn and get turned on too and straight porn doesn't do too much for me.

    So this has led to me wondering if I'm bisexual or bicurious. I mean I don't know if it's only sexual attraction or if I could see myself in a relationship with a girl. I could see myself with a guy, but to be honest, they're intimidating for some reason.

    Anyways what does this sound like?
     
  2. tay98

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    I think that maybe you need to experiment a bit. If you do have a sexual attraction to more than one gender then you are probably bi. Maybe try dating a girl or imagining what that could be like to see if you have any romantic attraction towards girls.
    In my opinion, bicurious really just means that you're questioning if you're bi, and bisexual is the term people use when they know for sure. So to me I would say you are bicurious as you're not completely sure on your attraction. This is why I suggest experimenting a bit and hopefully taht should clarify for you.
    And I get what you mean about guys being intimidating, i find that too. I'm just more comfortable with girls.
     
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