Hello, so I made this account just for this question, don't want this on my other account. But I don't know if I gay or not? I have a feeling I'm bisexual but I dunno. This might be a long post but advice? I really need help. When I was 12, I was browsing YouTube and saw 2 guys kissing and I got aroused, then I saw this video about 2 guys on bed and was playing with each other (like they weren't naked they were just playing around...) and my friend told me about porn and masturbaiting. I didn't watch porn yet because I thought it was bad so I masturbaited to me having sex with a women and I liked it. All of a sudden when I was 13, I got really horny and I typed in "porn" on google, and the first thing I saw was gay porn..... and I liked it, I started noticing guys more and...... not really girls, I still masterbait to guys and girls. But when I cum, the cum feels more stronger when I think of guys. So could I be bi? I remember I my first arousal was guys. The only reason I think I'm bi is because every time I masturbait about girls, I still cum.... also, at my school, I have this girl who I think is awesome and sometimes I think of me and her going out. There is this guy at my school too and I think of me having sex with him to. Also, weird thing I'm gonna say: every time I think about myself in the future, I don't see me but I see someone else who is a guy... Idk, I'm really stressed out and just want this to stop....... But some advice? Thanks... #1Today at 9:21 PM + Quote Reply
I would have to say you're bisexual, but not because of your porn of mastirbation habits, but because you said there's a guy you'll be willing to have sex with. I mean this could just be a phase, perhaps your sexual attraction to guys will go down. But may I ask, how old are you?
JaceDunno: My suggestion is to lay off the porn & try a real person. When you're young & horny, u can get aroused to almost anything, so your reaction to porn doesn't prove you're gay or straight. Try getting close to someone. It's a lot different getting close to a girl than a guy. But that's the best sex - being w another human being. It's not as easy as watching porn & rubbing one out … but more rewarding. See what works - trial & error … a learning curve … u find out what works & what doesn't.
