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Testing Name and Pronouns

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by bitemvrks, Sep 1, 2017.

  1. bitemvrks

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    Hey fellow humans, I have a chosen name that I've been using for a few months now, "Zee" but lately I haven't felt like it really fits me. So before I go all out and tell my friends to call me a different name again, I'd like to ask you all a favor.

    Can you just reply with a random question or statement or whatever using the name "Jay" and pronouns "He/him" or "they/them". Thank you in advance!
     
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    Ahh, the fun of choosing a name, I remember that. You'll find the right one at some point. It just can take some time and trial and error, which can be annoying at times.

    But, back to the orginal point of the thread, How have you been doing today Jay?
     
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    When I was young I wanted to be called Vincent, then Aiden and then briefly Alex as I was obsessed with the character Lexa and wanted a male version of it. I've since, when fully questioning my gender settled on Cody, I think my associations with it make me believe it suits my character well as feels right, you'll get there too. Also just mentioning it but the gender identity and expressions section which this is posted in does have an entire thread dedicated to testing out names and pronouns, perhaps it's worth a look.

    https://forum.emptyclosets.com/index.php?threads/test-your-name-pronouns-here.413728/page-31

    Anyway though since you requested it on this thread.

    Have you seen Jay today? I haven't heard from him, I think he's got too engrossed in his drawing again that he's forgotten about the time.

    Do you think Jay would like to play football with us today? I'm going to ask them to join.

    That comic book is one of Jay's favourites they've collected over half the series, quite impressive if you ask me, they're rare so it must take them a lot of dedication.. or money.

    Jay's on his way here now, are you sure we want to go to the cinema to watch this? There are better films showing here at the moment. I'm sure Jay will agree with me, he tends to have good taste in stuff like this.

    Hope that helped. Also just a side note, I think Jay is a nice name.
     
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    Thank you so much for helping out. I could be doing better but I'll be okay.
     
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    im doing the name thing again too. but on to the point. hey Jay, how are you?
     
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    Ah yeah I remember that thread and before I posted this I was actually looking for it but couldn't find it and decided just to make my own thread instead. Thanks for helping out!
     
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    I'm doing a bit better than I was earlier, thanks for asking!
     
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    I tried... 7 names? :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: Jay included. It didn't feel mine for some reason. But maybe this is your, name, Jay?
     
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    Hey Jay, I'm glad to hear that you have been doing better now!

    Threads have a way of hiding around here. It seems to happen more when you are actually looking for them...lol.
     
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    Hi Jay! Nice to meet you, I'm Alex! How are you? What do you think of the name so far? I'm hoping the name Alex ends up being my name. I think if i could try it out aloud that would help me decide more.
     
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    Hi Alex! I definitely feel the same. Online helps a little bit, but when people irl call me a name it kind of affects me more.
     
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    Haha that makes me feel a bit better about my situation. We'll see if it works out for me.
     
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    Yeah I've noticed it a lot more now that I'm on here more often, haha.
     
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    Hey everyone! I've thought about it and just sort of lived live and I think I'm going to stick with the name Zee and using they/them pronouns. Thank you all for helping me!
     
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