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Dreaming of women

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by junebug99, Aug 30, 2017.

  1. junebug99

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    I think it does. Dreams happen when we are all relaxed. I think that it's our minds telling us what we really want.
     
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    I have once dreamed I was inlove with a sweet, innocent, and elegant chinese woman, I don't remember the face. Just the feeling it was more emotional than sexual.
    It was a typical dream of having a rich admirer, head over heels over you. Lol
    Then I've also had dreams of my best friend whom I had feelings for in college. Always weird, like a guessing game. Oooh brings back weird emotions!l and memories!
     
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    I think they can be, but definitely disagree that they always are.
    The explanation I agree with most is that dreams are just a side effect of the brain sorting through experiences from your conscious mind, and filing them in your subconscious.
     
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    Everyone's different, but I just don't buy these Freudian explanations.

    I think we all know our own truths. I think they're within us, often they are very simple and conversely not easy to accept. The real work to be done is in developing the bravery to follow our own inner voice.
     
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    Hmmmm....
    What about the fact that it was three different dreams with three different close friends? Does that say something about them or a representation of my feelings for them? I'm
    Very close to all three and one I've definitely had a crush on :blush:
     
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    My ah ha moment of "I think I'm gay" was after waking from a seriously intense dream about making love to a woman. It was crazy! I had never experienced anything so passionate ever. Since then I have had dreams here and there.. I orgasmed in my sleep a week back to one (never had that happened before). This morning I woke to one about the woman I'm seriously crushing on and was wired awake for an hour after. It just keeps getting more intense! Man... my body is needing to experience this soon haha.
     
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    I think I would enjoy sex more with a woman. We know what we like. And I've never really liked doing it with my husband.
     
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