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Bi or gay with exceptions

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Samthing, Aug 27, 2017.

  1. Samthing

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    Used to think I was bi cause I liked guys and girls. But as I've examined it further I kinda found out that although I like cis men I prefer transwomen to cis women. Not sure if that still means I'm bi or just gay with a few exceptions.
     
  2. Either would be fitting. Whichever you feel more comfortable and confident identifying with is what you should use.
     
  3. Tomás1

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    It sounds like your main preference is for transwomen. Can u say more about why u prefer transwomen more than cis women? …or more than cis men?

    Also, are u talking relationships, or just sex? I think it's wise to distinguish, because sex is often pretty easy, & can be influenced by our fantasies, while relationships are way more complex.
     
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    It's more the sexual side of it, I've been with transwomen who've had Top surgery but not bottom, and that's been more fun than similar situations with cis women