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Prom Need Some Advice

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by lupacexi, Aug 23, 2017.

  1. lupacexi

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    This was my first prom and I have never went on a date, grinded or danced with a guy. I haven't even kissed a guy. I was dancing in a circle with my friends and I was the only one that didn't have a date. So some guy I don't know comes behind me and apparently its called grinding. I could feel his junk, it was weird and I slow danced with him. Is it bad I wish someone liked me? Last night I wished I had a warm body to cuddle with and fell asleep with. Is that weird? (I asked someone to prom and they said no.) I'm shy, awkward, and haven't really had a boyfriend, boyfriend. I don't understand. Please need help.
     
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    I think a key thing to remember is that you don't need all the answers surrounding your sexuality right now- there are many things you have to be patient with, and realise over time. I get that this can be a frustrating concept, especially when you feel alone, but it's worth taking a deep breath and remembering that you are lovable and valuable regardless of whether or not you have a significant other :slight_smile: x
     
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    It is a good thing to find someone you really like and not just find someone to find someone.

    It is normal to want someone to cuddle with yes.
     
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    thank
     
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    Everything you are feeling is completely normal and natural. It's okay to feel lonely sometimes.
     
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