I've always been attracted to boys,romantically and sexually.But I get aroused when I see hot girls,but this does not happens to me when I see hot girls in real life.I cannot imagine myself in a romantic relation with another girl,ever.I thought about having sex with a girl I kinda got aroused but something was very,very off about it.Did not felt like the way it would feel with a guy.it was just weird and I did not want to do it,but on the other hand I kinda got aroused.So does that makes me heteroromantic bisexual??? Help.
The split attraction model doesn't really work for non ace/aro identities, heteromantic bisexuals don't really exist. You could just be bisexual with a preference for men?
I felt like this for a while and it was super confusing because I felt like I was faking it! Now I definitely know I'm bisexual, with a very slight preference for men... But it may take a while to figure out and whether you end up as het or bi or whatever it's good to explore and sexuality is fluid, so you may find you change your mind☺️
I respectfully disagree with Nils, because I consider myself a heteroromantic bisexual. So I'm a thing. But another way of putting it for you is: you are just a normal female who gets turned on by thinking of things that she wouldn't do. The value of forums like EC is that we discover that lots of people feel the same way.
From my person perspective, I find that doubtful. Granted I am not you, from your previous posts you display much more interest in other girls than is probable for a purely heterosexual person, but you could be just slightly attracted to other females.
I must also disagree with Nils on this, as I am living proof that heteroromantic bisexuals exist. As for you Ryder, you don't really seem like a heteromantic bisexual to me. It seems as if you are aroused by women, but sort of repulsed by the idea of having sex with one, and also don't find them attractive in real life. It sounds as if you are a straight woman who can appreciate beauty and can acknowledge when a woman is attractive, and therefore get aroused by the beauty, but not necessarily want to act on it. I have heard of several situations where this is true with straight people. Then again, that is just my opinion, and only you can know for sure
Why not just a heterosexual with curious tendencies? It doesn't even seem like you're sexually oriented toward girls other than a physical response. And women get physically aroused to literally anything....
Men too! I'll worry when I stop being turned on by random things. OP is normal girl... who just might have a girlfriend some day. But is a lot more likely to have a boyfriend. Side note: It's nice to see that on the opposite side of the world, people are the same.
I can't see myself with a girl.What I get while thinking about woman is just a physical response.I do not like it and I'm repulsed by the idea having sexual relation with a woman.and I don't feel any romantic attraction towards them.
Ah, I see. I think that makes things a bit simpler. In any case, good luck being you. You express yourself well, so I think you will find your way well too.
