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Sexuality for Nonbinary

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Percy15, Aug 15, 2017.

  1. Percy15

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    I'm nonbinary and very confused about a label for who I am attracted to. Honestly, I don't even know anymore. I was pretty sure I was bisexual, but I am not really interested in dating most cis men: only those who I know well. Generally, I would assume that made me possibly demi or pansexual, but I am still sexually and romantically attracted to all women, transmen, and nonbinary people regardless of how well I know them. While I don't really need a label for survival, even thinking about it leaves me confused, and it would give me peace of mind to know that I do indeed have a sexuality.
     
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    How about "picky bi"?

    I am pretty narrow minded about the guys I would date, but more open with the women I would date... If I were looking for a relationship. I just go with bi, because its simple.
     
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    While i consider myself binary, i am a feminine bisexual male. I consider myself bi even though i don't find 98% of men attractive.

    I wouldn't worry too much about labels. If you get too cought up in yhem you can forget how to just be yourself and seek who you did attractive.
     
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    I don't want to say "gynephilia", but this seems to be common with many self-identified lesbians. Their reasoning is that if you're attracted to "female" body parts (by that, they mean AFAB), you're a lesbian. Don't ask me how they exclude trans women but not trans men.