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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Lilli Krux, Jul 27, 2017.

  1. Lilli Krux

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    Hello everyone,

    I just found this forum yesterday, but I already made a post so I could continue figuring out what I am. It seems that I am probably bisexual, but with a preference for guys thus far. (I'm a girl, age 20). I don't know if I really belong here but everyone seems super nice! Just wanted to introduce myself, and say that anyone who wants to message me or post on my profile is welcome to!

    I don't have many LGBT friends in real life, and so I don't have much of a reference or many people to talk to about this subject. I am not out at all, partly because I don't want to come out and have to take it back later. I want to be sure. I've barely even told my counselor about my questioning of my orientation. Partly also, I don't know if there's enough there for me to come out about. But I still think that my participating in this forum would probably do me some good. Most of all, I want to develop an understanding of not only others but myself, and improve as a person. Anyway, thank you for letting me be here and thank you for commenting too!
     
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    Hey welcome to EC. Of course you belong here :slight_smile:
     
  3. Lilli Krux

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    Aww thanks!! It's lovely to meet you and I love your profile pic/avatar. It's great to be here! :slight_smile:
     
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    Hello Lilli Krux! Welcome to EC!:slight_smile:
     
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    Yay, thank you so much! It's great to meet you!
     
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    welcome lil krux, you are definaly welcome here and all your points are valid and worth further investigation with help from previous posts or startign threads of your own. :wave:
     
  7. Lilli Krux

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    Aww thank you so much! It's great to meet you. I am very happy to be here as it is a very nice community. I love meeting new people of similar stories and interests.
     
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    Am still realtivily new myself , and everyone is really welcomming, i still haven't got round to writting "my story" as yet but working towards that. I went back in time in the later in life section and reading them and watching all the stories and see the progression of peoples journey.

    hows it going lilli krux?
     
  9. Lilli Krux

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    I understand completely. I have written part of my story but not the whole thing, also working towards that. I've been going through the threads as well. Later in life might be a good idea. I'm 20 so I don't know if that counts as later in life but I didn't start figuring out I was bi until recently. And I thought I was just sexually interested in women, but as it turns out, I'm bi-romantic as well, becoming more bi-romantic ever day (just learned that term)

    And it's going pretty well actually! I'm so happy I found this site.
     
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    Hey and welcome to EC! This place is incredibly supportive and helpful. Don't be afraid to reach out about anything. Chances are pretty good that someone here will have some great advice. :slight_smile:
     
  11. Lilli Krux

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    Thank you so much!!! That's true, I'm finding that to be true as well, that it's okay to reach out here and that people do have great advice. Feel free to message me anytime, and this goes for everyone who reads this. I enjoy talking to people a lot.
     
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    Welcome to EC! i joined for much the same reasons, I'm sure you'll find the same supportive atmosphere great!
     
  13. Lilli Krux

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    That's awesome! Yes, I'm finding that it's very nice here. Nice to meet you btw! And I love your avatar, it's so pretty! I need to update my own avatar.
     
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    Aw thanks! It's a character from one of my favorite book series. (also yours is still cute :blush:)
     
  15. Howdy Lilli! Nice to meet you.

    As some people have mentioned, this community is very supportive and is filled with good-hearted people who will shed great advice and hopefully help you understand some things much more.

    Hope to see you around!
     
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    Hello and welcome!
     
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    Hi Lilli! and hi to the rest of course!
     
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    Hi, Lilli Krux! Welcome to EC!
     
  19. Lilli Krux

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    Thank you!! I updated it from the last one which was the little person without a face or anything. Which book is it?
     
  20. Lilli Krux

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    Sorry for responding so late, I didn't get an alert that I got more responses to my thread. Thank you so much!! And you're right about that, this is a very sweet community, where I can definitely get some understanding into myself and others. Feel free to chat with me anytime. I don't have the conversation feature activated yet but you can post on my wall.