Hi, I'm 15 years old, and reciently one of my close friends, ( a girl) told me I liked her, she told me in a classroom with almost no lights and when we were alone. Even when I've thought that I only like guys, when she told me, I just wanted to kiss her and forget everything, it freaked me out because I've never reactioned a confesion like this, I didnt kiss her and ask her for a little time.... I support and love my gay friends but now I'm really confused if I'm also gay Can someone help me please?
When I was questioning myself I asked: Can I imagine myself in a happy and fulfilling relationship with a girl? The answer was yes. I then asked myself the same thing about boys, the answer was no. I also asked myself if I found girls or boys or both physically and emotionally attractive. I dont find boys attractive in that way and thus I concluded that I am gay. Asking yourself those questions can be helpful. If you like girls and boys you may be bi but thats up for you to figure out. Remember, bisexuality isn't always 50/50 you could have a preference for boys or for girls. Some people that identify as straight are also sometimes a bit flexible with their sexuality. Some call it heteroflexible I think. Im not too sure though. I hope I could kinda help.
I agree with iliketolift1, and be patient and honest with yourself. You don't have to tell anyone right away, this is just for you to figure out.
