I'd agree that you certainly appear to exhibit all the signs of being a lesbian. I can associate with you in that for the last few years my relationships have been exclusively lesbian I still hesitate to label myself as such. When I was younger I had satisfactory sex with men so maybe I just don't feel confident in myself in declaring myself lesbian. What I will say is that if you feel happy in whatever you do then go for it. At 17 I was really confused about my sexuality (probably like 90% of 17 year olds). It took me time and more importantly experience to become the slightly screwed up but basically positive Woman that I now am. You've got a lot of fun times to come. Enjoy them.
@Freewayhighway sexuality is fluid and can change over a life time, I was reading about a man who had identified as a gay until he was 28 or 29 years old, but fell in love with the perfect woman, he ended up in a monogamous sexual relationship with her and now identifies as bi My point is you can be a lesbian now, if you meet a guy that changes that later, then dont be scared to redefine yourself. Its not a competition, you dont need to flex your "Lesbian muscles" to be accepted and anyone that tries to make you, probably isnt your friend.
From what I have read lots of women like sex with a strap on and it's not wanting to have sex with a guy it's not the penis itself it's the person it's attached to. And being gay isn't just about what you are attracted to its who you fall in love with.
Omg finally someone that is similar to me. I've also identified as a lesbian for the past 2 or 3 years and I'm also 17. During my "not sure if I'm bi" stage, I dated a guy for a year and a half. I eventually ended things when I just couldn't pretend anymore. Anyways..I was sure I was gay after ending things, but then I would always fantasize of a penis when masturbating..but not a guys penis or a girls. Legit just a penis. So maybe I also have this kink thing? And I watch straight porn and gay guy porn..so that added to my confusion. I identify as lesbian but sometimes I feel "fake" too. When I envision my future though, it's with a woman and not a man. I know your struggle girl lol.
