What is wrong with straight people?! Freaks!

Rjay I would be concerned that you feel this way, it sounds like you need to get help. Remember they are the normal ones and we are abnormal. And before anyone jumps on me, Im not saying abnormal makes us wrong or bad. The fact that you get physically sick is unusual, talk to someone.

 

Why are we abnormal??
I'm not saying it's right that it makes RJay feel sick, but as she said it is perhaps just a phase as she works through her past. I agree that she should work through it but I definitely do not agree that gay couples should be looked upon as abnormal, I am not jumping on you I am sure you have your reasons for thinking this or wording it this way but I do not agree.

 

I can see reasoning behind you having these feelings, and think this is a state of mind you have to go through in order to heal what has gone before, on the other hand I think it's so interesting how the brain works. You lived the straight life partly because society and other people's views were pushed onto you, and whilst I realise you are not going to view these straight couples and actually say anything to them, what your mind is doing now is almost pushing your views onto the woman in these relationships haha

 

What I mean is penis's were made for vagina's, men were made for women. I dont like women sexually but I accept that it makes me a little unusual, not the norm or abnormal. There's no shame in it.

Sort of like going against our intended use, this is a silly example. A pencil is made to write, I use one to scratch my back. Pencils arent meant for that, though it is not wrong to use them in that way. Does this make sense? I word things poorly sometimes.

 

I do get what you are saying, I think perhaps abnormal was just a poor word choice but I do that myself frequently.

 

Hell we are all abnormal even if u are stright, gay, bi, pink, yellow, red, black or white. Please define normal for me because if u think u can then I have bridge I want to sell stock in. Shit no one is normal.

 

Did you maybe mean Jackie, that we are the minority? And straight people are the majority?

I agree it's hard to define normal and even if you could I'm not sure I'm want to be defined as that

 

That's how I have looked myself. There is nothing wrong with the feelings I have, just that I am in the minority. And that the majority doesn't understand how we can have those feelings because they are different from theirs and people don't like different.

 

Normal rebound effect. You goofball!

 

Oh no, I knew I was gonna start some shit, BTW Im not normal by anyone's standard, last week somebody called me a rustic whatever that means.

 

So interesting, @RJay! It's so crazy how our framework can change and we can have a whole new perspective. As you have mentioned it does sound like you are trying to work through some inner turmoil due to mourning discovering your sexuality so late. I am sure you can learn to come to peace with this soon through continued self searching and addressing your past as you have been doing. I would think that ideally we would see all couples as sweet and as its own form of love. But I 100% understand why you are feeling this way. I imagine you are dealing with some serious feelings as you have fallen so hard for V but you don't know her feelings. For your own sanity at some point you may need some level of closure or acceptance (regardless of where she is with her feelings for you). I imagine you are quite conflicted. You have been facing some serious ups and down of self discovery the past few months! ❤️

 

..And sorry if that was overstepping and unsolicited. I'm at the gym and was sort of just rambling on the elliptical. I think your thoughts and feelings are a completely natural response due to your new self discoveries.

 

I can relate to some of your feeling RJay, I am not grossed out, but wonder a lot why women are into men.... I will probably never understand why not all women are lesbians. I know I get on my wife's nerves when I start to wonder about hetero relationships again. They are like a weird species to me.

Sorry to the men around here but to me they are just generally very bland, there are only very few exceptions. And I never have the same urge to get to know them as I have with new female friends. So that is probably why I have no idea what makes them appealing to women.

 

Imo, abnormal is just an iffy word to use, even if you didn't mean anything bad from it.

I know homosexual sex is not the intended use of sex. Penises were made to go in vaginas and all that. On the other hand, the intended use of heterosexual sex is reproduction, and yet many straight people use birth control, condoms, are childfree.....etc. Technically, they are not really supposed to have sex this way, since nature didn't create heterosexual sex to be without reproduction (birth control is unnatural and man made). But I don't know if I would call straight people who use birth control to be "abnormal"? We could say they are biologically abnormal and "having sex the wrong way", but most people do it, so It's become normal in that sense.

As for the OP, I used to be really heterophobic and disgusted by straight people when I came out, but I got past it. Now I like straight couples and even write them (just have no personal interest).

 

You are just very, very gay