I was in what was at first a great relationship my mom hated her though from the start ... I loved (love) her it was so great in the beginning but she did things that made me question her "love" for me she would talk to other girls n got weirdly close to my cousin ig that's what I'd consider him .... n we started drifting I was raise very "hood" ig like my family gang bangs n stuff so I was taught having feelings is a big no no so I would just give up but I'd always take her back she would do me so wrong n I'd go back I just found out her n my transgender cousin slept together ....n I hate that I allow her to have this power over me but the last girl she cheated on me with well there dating n I'm her alone self medicating just to forget n I'm hella depressed .... HELP any advise
Hey you need to try and move on from her, keep yourself busy, maybe try some new hobbies, try and meet new girls and anytime she pops into your head just remind yourself of all her negatives.
Yea I do but I try the wrong things like drinking or self medicating and I just ugh I wish ppl would understand I get scared to leave my house cause ion wanna run into her
Ok well, maybe try something new. What is something positive you would like to try? Is there anything any of your friends would like to try too? If you want to change the cycle you have to break the repetition of what y U have been doing. I'm not saying it will be easy but when you get there it will be worth it.
Well I work but not that much I try to distract myself with family but it's kinda hard...n friends I don't have many keep my circle small
Ok but what about trying a new sport, or if you like crafts find yourself a project? If you want to meet new people look at meetup.com and see if there are any things that take your fancy.
Don't take her back it's a toxic relationship and doesn't sound good for either of you. Let her go to be with as many people as she wants and find someone who will treat you the way you want to be treated. You deserve respect everyone does.
