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How do I ask someone out?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by GenderfluidKat7, Jul 14, 2017.

  1. GenderfluidKat7

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    how I can ask my crush/friend up out on a date? I just want to ask them to go on a date somewhere simple, like the movies, or something. If you can give any advice, please do. Thank ya.
     
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    So it will depend on how you think your crush will react to your asking to go on a date. If you're confident that they would say yes then would you just ask them?
     
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    Just ask "would you like to go out with me?" Pretty simple.
     
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    I'm asking them out, because I'm pretty confident. Me and them have known eachother for a very long time, and they have done things that make it seem like they might feel the same way.
     
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    Good to hear. In that case @Creativemind is right, just be clear and upfront about it. If they say 'yes what did you have in mind' then just say something like a movie or dinner or what you were planning. Best of luck.
     
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    Thanks to the both of you. Next time I see them, I'm going to tell them how I feel. The only problem is, if they say yes, my parents could find out. I guess if they say yes, I'll just either have to come out, or tell them that I'm just going to go hang out with them, but I might feel bad lying. Whatever. Thanks again! :3
     
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    @GenderfluidKat7 You don't need to lie, just say you are going to hang out with them. It's true and you are omitting something rather than lying. All the best.
     
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    Thank you so much :slight_smile: