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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Ashlee Greene, Jul 10, 2017.

  1. Ashlee Greene

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    Hello everyone,
    I need all the help I can get!!! I feel like I'm crumbling ...my life is a mess. I've fallen in love with a girl a couple of years ago and my boring marriage deteriorated. I'm currently separated, and I've been having (mindblowing, may I add) sex with the same girl about every single night. Am I a lesbian? When did I become such an immoral person? Why am I a hypocrite? Am I a lesbian? Why haven't figured my shit out? I'm in my 30s.
    First things first, where do I post a detailed description of my shit situation? Thanks
     
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    Hey welcome to EC. Why do you feel immoral?
     
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    Oh, because I'm not divorced yet, just separated. We also work together....she comes over after work..
     
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    Hey, you can post on here...explain away.... :slight_smile:
     
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    I know it's not easy and the feelings you have right now are incredibly frustrating, but there are a lot of us here facing similar situations. We can't tell you what is best for you or tell you what your sexuality is, but we can offer you support and advice.
     
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    I see. Well I don't think sleeping with someone from work is immoral, potentially awkward if things go wrong but not immoral. You are not divorced yet but you are getting divorced? I don't think you should be so hard on yourself.
    Are you ashamed of your relationship with her?
     
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    I find myself getting lost on this site at times. I am not used to it yet
     
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    Hi there welcome to EC.