I'm feeling the need to find a label I can identify with. I thought since I'm getting a bit impatient, ec could help me. Anyway, this is what I'm going for. I wouldn't call it genderqueer, androgyny, or anything of the like myself. I don't currently have any plans to go on hormones. I prefer she/her pronouns, but i think i'm still a while away from asking for that. I'm gonna practice tucking soon. Lately, I've been window shopping for women's clothes, and have even been trying them on. I do natural makeup every day. I've been pretty lazy with my facial hair lately, letting it go for several days, but I generally always want it bare. I'm nervous about wanting to feminize my voice. Not so much that I want a higher pitch, just having a softer, lifted pitch. I won't be getting my nails done anytime soon, because my job doesn't allow it So, all in all, I want the appearance of a woman, the pronouns, and all that fun stuff. Keep in mind that's not where I am now, but that is the goal. Anyway, if anyone has any ideas of what gender I could potentially be, please let me know!
I found this helpful: https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCfO3B57E6NpIn-KsVjvmLLw The question is: why do you want to look like a woman? Because you feel younare one or because it looks good? Or both xP
Desired presentation and gender identity don't always go "hand-in-hand". I think the pronouns you prefer are more of an indicator, but only you can figure out whether that means you are a woman, genderqueer, etc etc. Good luck!
