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This was the most stressful day of my life

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Mihael, Jul 6, 2017.

  1. Mihael

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    So what I did today... I got my hair cut short in the morning. Well, chin length, but it's a lot less girly than it was yesterday. Then I went shopping and I bought an awful lot of clothes from the men's section. I was nervous but nobody in the mall was negative about it, and one guy from shop staff even treated me like a guy when he saw what I'm buying :slight_smile: This was my first major shopping in the men's section. (Haircut not...) Then I was super stressed to tell my partents that I bought men's clothes, and I didn't tell dad yet, but I managed to tell my mom, and she's okay and everything is fine. It was such a stressful day, but I did a lot. I hope everything goes more smoothly since now.
     
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    I'm very tired and very happy. Maybe I'll finally look like a guy xP
     
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    That's great! I'm happy for you!
     
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    Yea I know how it feels, I was so stressed when I was buying only male shorts xD Congratz dude, for all, clothes, hair and supportive mother.
     
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    Go emerry! :slight_smile:
     
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    Woo HoO! Glad you are feeling happy :smile: It's really awesome that you did all that stuff.
     
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    Yay! I'm happy for you. When I bought stuff from the men's section, my mom got mad at me and my dad didn't care, as long as I wear/wore it.
     
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    congratulations, you can always have the hair cut shorter in time. Or go back to the same barber and tell them you are not happy and want it much shorter. Good luck
     
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    or just take a scissor to the back of your hair and cut it a crooked so there is no choice it has to be cut boy short to straighten it out. That is what I would do if someone would ot cut my hair the way I wanted it.
     
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    did you go back and get your hair cut shorter , if not cut the back your self in the bathroom crooked, so you have no choice but to get it cut shorter.
     
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    Nooo, I wanted them the way they are :slight_smile:
     
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    good, I thought you wanted your hair shorter, my misunderstanding.
     
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    my gf is going to be cutting my very short at our engagement party. She wants me to have a more masculine style.
     
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