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So, I'be now hit a dilemma..

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by RoseChan00, Jun 29, 2017.

  1. RoseChan00

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    I hate my life... I hate my luck... I hate it... i just hate it.
    I knew this was gping to happen. I wanted to start HRT before my birthday this year.
    it isnt happening...
    IN FACT i dpubt it's happening before my 20th birthday as... well... my inscurance currently is state paid and does not cover HRT.
    It hurts...
    As my mom and i dont really have the money to put me through HRT, and we.likely wont... for a while.
    A long....long... while.
    And its jsut... heartbreaking to me.
    Now i jsit feel atumped again at these crossroads of juat giving up and livijg in misery... or well...
    It jist... doesnt feel like it's worth trying because i dont want to have to be oit in the real world trying to get this done. It wpuld be alot more stresa than it qoupd be now.
    And i am not the best at handling stress..
    I cant say much more... im busy at the moment but...
    It hurts...
    It rwally... really hurts.
    Like... i want to cry.
     
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    have you tried Planned Parenthood? they may have access/knowledge to programs or services that you are unaware of? its a hope, maybe a slim one but still worth the asking.
     
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    That is a good idea. They are often more aware of resources than regular clinics. I'm sorry to hear you are in so much pain and distress. I don't know what to say that could make it better, but maybe something will come up. You never know.

    Hang in there. *hug*

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    I dpnt know hownplanned aprenthood cpuld help since our family is relatively poor (again, me and my.mom)
    Pluss, so few of my.other family.mebers know of it PLUS im not evwn in state with my mok,im visoting my dad 2 atates away.
     
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    Planned Parenthood usually has a sliding scale or resources to help low income people/family's. At least where I live.
    Don't despair yet, you said before that you were going to go through this with your Mom anyway. So at least wait until you are living with her again to see your options.
     
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    Hi Rose. So sorry about your setback. Hope you can find a solution. Hang in there. Hugs.
     
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    Oh my, you poor thing. I wish you the best of luck! If you want to talk, i have an open ear for you.
    Hang in there
     
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    I'm sorry to hear about this. I hope that all goes well. Remember that I will always be happy to talk to you whenever you need to. Hugs.
     
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    maybe your mom could call, your not the first trans girl who was poor, they may be able to help they've probably seen girls in your circumstances before, but if you dont ask the answer is always no.
     
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    I told her about the whole planned parenthood thing that almost everyone keeps telling me to tell her about. I'm unaware if i'd have to be in state with her or not but i assume that would be the case.
     
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    if she can call and ask for information, you wouldn't have to be there. it's just information or pamphlets etc.
     
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    Hi. I'm sorry to hear this. I am unsure really what to do, as I currently don't plan on taking hormones or doing surgeries.

    I also live in Canada, so I'm unsure how things work in the states. So here is the link to Planned Parenthood on what everyone is talking about. It seems good from what I've looked at it, and help people I need the LGBTQ+ community.

    https://www.plannedparenthood.org/get-care/our-services/lgbt-services

    You can get your mom to call them or you can if you are comfortable about it. There is a clinic in Mississippi from what I understand.

    I hope you can get something sooner
     
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    Not sure what to advise or do (except a hug). Planned Parenthood at least seems like a good start?
     
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    Rose, glad you came out to your ma, though. It's a step forward.