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Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Unknown737, Jun 28, 2017.

  1. Unknown737

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    Ok... I don't exactly know how this works... and it makes me a little uneasy but I need to talk somewhere. So I have come out to 2 friends as bisexual. I want to come out to more people but I am not sure if I am bisexual or Lesbian. Does anyone have any tips on how to deal with this?
     
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    I am not sure if that was a good way to start... This is the first thing I've been a part of that is LGBTQ open. I enjoy running, math, science, and I am pretty good in school. Hoping to find myself more hopefully just by talking to people I can relate to more. Really looking for some advice from anyone willing to give it. Thanks! Looking for people to talk to:slight_smile:
     
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    Hey don't worry there isn't a right and wrong way to post on the forum just whatever feels right to you. What makes you confused between bi and lesbian?
     
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    It's not necessarily that I'm confused between them cause I understand the difference... I am just not sure which on defines me. I have liked one guy in my life and I am not sure if that makes me bi or lesbian who just has a crush on a guy... ok... so anyways hope this isn't too confusing or anything:/ I am currently exploring myself and hoping to use this as a tool to just put it out there. Thanks
     
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    Absolutely. It's a great help. Talking to lots of people here can help you figure everything out.
     
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    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale where would you put yourself on that scale?

    With women the gender attraction seems a bit more fluent, can vary at different times which gender the woman finds attractive. With men it seems more either or.