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going on my first date this week!

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by findingjoy, Jun 18, 2017.

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  1. findingjoy

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    Thanks baristajedi,
    One of the trade offs of acceptance is the incredibly intensity of emotional and sexual experience - when it's great it's out of this world.. but there are risks of getting hurt, but I would risk it rather than go back to the gray numb world of the closet.

    another fear- I also now feel an aching longing to be with a man emotionally and physically. I am not ashamed to say I need cock. I need to please another man and have him inside me, but I don't want to do anything desperate or stupid.

    I never felt a strong sexual need for women, so like having a fast new sports car to drive, I have to be a little careful at first. The good thing is this urge is making me move forward.
     
    #21 findingjoy, Jun 23, 2017
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    Yay! What an amazing feeling to discover that your feelings for men were right all along. That's a huge step. And honestly, you couldn't be in a better place to explore that newfound side of yourself than Chelsea :grin:
     
    #22 Soundofmusic, Jun 23, 2017
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    <3 take chances, make mistakes, and get messy <3
     
    #23 Myles Kramer, Jun 23, 2017
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    FJ what you are feeling is perfectly normal. Life is about taking calculated chances. Meaning it's ok to experiment with your new found sexuality but be careful and safe doing so. Emotions are what they are so if as you become the fulfilled gay man you are meant to you get hurt, so be it. Part of life and growing as a person. Don't apologize for liking cock or anything else, do what makes you complete. Personally when my BF is inside me, the rest of world simply doesn't matter. It is just us. Wish the same pleasure for you.
     
    #24 Contented, Jun 23, 2017
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    I totally agree.
     
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    Also happy for you! Glad it went well! :slight_smile:
     
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