Is anyone else "bi" with an extreme prefference?

Unless you're in the infamous "I don't care as long as I get laid" state

 

I choked on my coffee when I read this.. oh my..

 

I usually prefer guys but my preference changes quite often. Right now it's in favour of women, just depends on the day I guess. Sexual fluidity just works in unpredictable ways I suppose

 

I'll count that as a win.

 

I wouldn't say that I have a prefference, just that it works differently for each gender. With women, I can imagine having romantic/sexual moments like natural interactions and I wish that happened to me at least once. With men, I'm usually staring at them (it happens with women too, but it's not as often and it usually comes with a great feeling), enjoying porn and sexual fantasies about guys. I have no idea about how it feels like to fall in love with a man, really. I only managed to get male friends, sometimes we were very close, but I never felt the same thing that I did with females. If I had to choose a more accurate label than bisexual, my choice would be "demilesbian heterosexual" or "homoromantic bisexual".

 

Yep, I can agree, I'm mostly this way except my preference is for men. I think this is because I tend to think more like a man and often relate to them and agree with them easier and I just prefer that in a relationship. Also it tends to fluctuate based on what I'm wanting at the time or how I'm feeling. There have been times when I just have no interest in men or women, when I really wanted to be with women, where I just wasn't interested in anyone... but in the end I feel like I see my long term partner being a man, or at least someone who is more aligned towards masculinity/manliness if that makes any sense, cause I'm not against dating a nonbinary person either, but generally on the masculine spectrum is more

 

I think i have a preference for guys, but it really depends on how strong that preference is. sometimes i feel like it's 50-50, but usually it leans towards guys.

i know i have some level of attraction to women, though, because it takes me a lot of effort to talk a girl i find attractive or to a girl who shows any interest in me.

maybe i have a preference for guys more often because i feel like its unattainable due to me being in the closet to most people. idk. i've realized i'm a lot less comfortable w/ my sexuality than i thought i was. and definitely less so than just a year ago. summer 2016-current has been a very tough time for me as a whole, including with sexuality.

 

It's the gwpamd with me . It's so difficult to explain it to my gay or straight friends, but I'm glad that there are people who understand our situation.

It is what it is and I think I'm happy to accept it, but it is annoying if I have the mega hots for a guy and then I meet an attractive woman. My mind kind of doubts it for a second, but I know I am definitely more comfortable in a relationship with a guy than a girl. There is no awkwardness with a guy at all. It's just a characteristic that I'll have to accept

 

It fluctuates for me but I tend to have a preference for guys most of the time (physically).

 

I'm kinda gay with the occasional stray. I can't imagine myself ever being with a woman. The most I could ever do is kiss her if that. I do find girls attractive tho. I'm not too sure if I am gay or no tbh

 

Same^^^