I have an average cut penis but it shrinks when not in use and grows to 6 inches hard. I have always been self-conscience about it. I realize I am in the national average group size but it seems so many other white men like me are larger, especially the younger guys. Your thoughts?
It's plenty big to please a partner. Whether you're driving a limousine or a smart car, what matters is how you drive it, so to speak.
Your more than fine. Why are you worrying!!!!! My buddy and I are both 6 inches plus rock hard!!!!! He's got 2 inches on me flaccid easy!!!
My first thought is that you're what is often referred to as a 'grower' - as in 'I'm a grower not a shower'. Which is perfectly fine I'd also point out that your view of your penis is rather foreshortened given the angle. Beyond that, let's think this through... If you're giving a guy a blow job - the size of your penis doesn't matter. If you're giving a guy a hand job - the size of your penis doesn't matter. If you're getting a blow job - the size of your penis doesn't matter. If your getting a hand job - the size of your penis doesn't matter. If you're topping - the size of your penis pretty much doesn't matter within wide parameters that you fall within (and even if you didn't - that's what toys are for). If you're bottoming - the size of your penis doesn't matter. Finally, and speaking from experience - sex is largely a matter of sensation and cooperation. If given a choice between a guy with a small to average size penis who cares about whether or not I have a good time when we're together - or a guy who's really hung, but doesn't care about any pleasure but his own - I'll take the first guy every time and as many times as possible if we really have a lot of fun The moral of this story = be a fun and considerate lover who cares about your partners pleasure as much as your own - and you'll do just fine (and the size of your penis doesn't matter). Hope this helps, Todd
For what it's worth, 6 inches is actually larger than average, according to multiple studies. Porn has unfortunately skewed our perceptions, because most of the people who participate in porn are pretty well hung. So... yeah, you're perfectly well endowed. Anyone who tells you otherwise is not someone you want to be with.
Thanks for all of your support. It is not the biggest part of my life, but always something that made me think. In a locker room I would often turn so as to shield my grower from larger ones. That, of course, was after I got a peak.
Actually for me I always thought I was small as well but it turns out I have a 6 inch penis. I just thought because I was super thin and my arms, hands, legs and feet and head and body being small just meant that my penis would be small and so its a weird surprise that my sexual organs are above average in size.
Mine is similar to yours jscott3320. I am somewhere between 6 and 7 inches erect (never actually got a true measure). However, mine also looks smaller because I am overweight, so fat covers some of it's length. I have the shrinking too, and get really self conscious about it when it's flaccid.
I have been in a lot public/shared showers b/c it was the "military way". I was always self conscious that mine shrunk to almost nothing. It seems everyone expects men to have it out hanging loose all the time. I guess folks are just made different. What is odd is that my MRI shows it all tucked in nicely. Guys I know don't talk about this at all. When I went through medical training, I even learned it was known that some guys do not have everything come out the end, the "exit" would be halfway up the penis. That would be difficult.