Have you ever been asked by this question coming from curious people? If so how did you answered it? If you havent, how will you answer it? Bonus question: If a young mind asked you this question, how will you answer it? How much will you filter, or will you even filter words at all?
Unless I feel like it's educational--like a more inexperienced person who is also gay--I get kinda pissy and tend to ask back "that's a good question, but let's talk about you. How do you have sex?" Just to show them how fucking stupid that question is to ask another person. People think it's not a weird question just because you're gay, just like they think it's okay to ask about your genitals when they know you're trans.
I haven't been asked this question, but I'd probably tell them "no idea" because I only have a vague idea of how to and if they were genuinely asking I wouldn't want to be wrong.
Nope, I'm in high school, so everyone's minds are already crude enough that I don't have to go into details...
Depends on the intent. If someone is genuinely curious, and especially if they are inexperienced and gay themselves, I'd give a serious answer. If It's to be rude or ignorant, I either ignore it or give a sarcastic response. I mean, how stupid does one have to be to not get how gay people have sex? And if you really don't know, I feel sorry for you as your sex life probably sucks.
I'd make up something ridiculous and clearly untrue answer and would explain to them in a dead serious voice, just to make them realise how stupid the question is. or I'd give the answer to those who are gays themselves with no experience or to those who are just being curious in a respectful way.
Ok, yeah, from a youth I might actually take the question seriously. To be honest I'd want to know their parent's preferences on teaching their children about sexual subjects before answering. I'd probably end up saying that they should ask their parents that question. To an adult I would give a response along the lines of "use your f***ing imagination."
The only people who have ever asked me this are straight men right after they find out I'm gay or they ask "do you use strap one" I get a little bitchy when they ask.
I've only heard it coming from a rude place so I take great pride in turning the question back on them!!!
