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Puberty

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Justasking100, Apr 27, 2017.

  1. Justasking100

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    Is the gender you fantasised about when going through puberty generally the one which you are orientated towards? Is it likely that someone could fantasise regularly about one gender exclusively during the formative years but later discover they were interested in the other gender.

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    I ask this from a male perspective
     
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    It's a possibility.. When I was a teenager I fantasized about girls.. I still feel this way, but realize I am also attracted to men.
     
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    Thanks. I guess I'm wondering if it's possible that your sexuality can change from the one you were fantising about growing up. Whether from gay to straight or vice versa.
     
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    The fantasizes I had as a child remained consistent with the fantasizes I have later in life. There were times when I consciously forced myself to fantasize differently, but those were not authentic.