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Who was your first same-sex crush?

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  1. blueshadedsoul

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    First that i acknowledged as an actual crush was probably Azmarie Livingston on America's Next Top Model lol
     
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    The only reason I would watch the old star wars movies with my dad when I was young was because I had a crush on Princess Leia. Yes, little six years old me had a crush on Carrie Fisher (RIP).
     
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    YES! She was so hot. All my friends were panting over Tom Cruise. I didn't get it. I was all about Kelly. I guess it should have occurred to me that I was a lesbian back then. Oh well, I finally figured it out.

    My first same sex crush was my best friend from 5th grade. I started crushing on her as soon as she moved in across the street from me. The crush continued through high school and into college. I pretty much ended when she got into a serious relationship with the man that became her husband. We are still friends some 45 years later. I never told her I had a crush on her. I thought she would ask after I came out to her. Maybe she doesn't want to know. Maybe I'll tell her someday.
     
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    My first same sex crush was when I was 10, she was my best friend, she had a cute face and she was a confident tough girl. I told my mother, she was ok with it but to me it felt anything but ok. But I tried to give her signs by looking at her in a certain way but she was weirded out by me, asked me "are you in love with me or something" and I convinced her I wasn't (whew) and pushed it away. Never allowed myself to fall in love with a girl again (also for other reasons).
     
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    Probably Alex Pettyfer in Wild Child when I was 14, after that I started questioning my sexuality - out of a full-female cast I had to like the only male actor. :-D He was quite attractive when he was younger.
    In real life my first crush was a close friend of mine, though he turned out to be a complete waste of time unfortunately.
     
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    I was 18. In the past I had already felt funny things for guys, besides, I hadnt fell in love with a girl. I was crazy for him. Eventhough hee had a lisp, each time I heard his voice, I fell that my heart melted. With him, I knew I liked boys.
     
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    Chris Evans and Zac Efron of course!!
     
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    My first same sex crush was from when I was around 15ish and it was my best friend at the time. We're sill in contact, but it was awkward feeling things for him because I knew he was straight.

    Those feelings actually lead to us drifting apart a little bit during highschool. We used to walk up his road and just talk about stuff all the time, but then we stopped doing that.
     
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    a girl in my sixth grade English class named Briana who eventually became my best friend in eighth grade, and my first girlfriend/ex in ninth.
     
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    My best friend in elementary school.
    Also Lindsay Lohan at Herbie. xD
     
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    Christian Bale playing Jack Kelly in Newsies :rolleyes: I mean I even stole his hairstyle for a while
     
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    People in my real life... I don't remember.

    Celebrities, I remember thinking that Jonathan Taylor Thomas was really cute when I watched reruns of the show when I was in elementary/middle school.
     
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    In 7th grade, OMG, I had a crush on a girl named Linda. She used to make me squirm in my seat... lol
     
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    People in my life is my real life girlfriend and love Lauren and we met in the 5th grade and became BFF's instantly and then in the 9th Grade we became lovers.

    Celeb. Crush is probably Ellen Page from Juno.
     
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    My best friend, and I still kinda have it, but I don't think she's as supportive of me as I'd like to think ^^' And she's definitely straight.. This crush is actually what first made me question my sexuality, I first started feeling it a few years ago but ignored it at first, but it came back full force this year ^^'
     
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    3rd grade. a dark skinned girl that I can't remember the name of at the mment.













    Edit: Her name was dondreka (That's not how You spell her name but IDK)
     
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    A senior of mine from college. I did many stupid things because of it, but at least I learned a lot too.
     
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    In real life a girl in my English class

    Celebrity Ellen Page after watching Juno
     
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    I think it happened in 6th grade, it was one of my close girl friends
     
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    Most of you younger people won't know who I am talking about. But mine was Charles atles he was a body builder I think 1960's he would stand flexing his muscles, in tight swim trunks. I had a big poster of him. I would lay in bad at night stairing at the bulge in his trunks. Lol