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If you have sexual feelings for someone of the same gender does it mean your bi/gay?

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  1. Shasta

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    the reason i feel I'm gay/bi is because I have sexual feelings towards another woman. I have these feelings off and on my whole life. I find myself wanting to get envolved with women but I never done anything with anyone. I do have fantasize about crushes in a sexaul way.
     
    #1 Shasta, Mar 31, 2017
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    Re: If you have sexual feelings for someone of the same gender does it mean your bi/g

    You'd be somewhere in the kinsey scale from 1-6 (depending on attraction to guys) in this case. Some women are just curious without being fully bi, others are fully bi/gay.
     
    #2 Creativemind, Mar 31, 2017
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    Re: If you have sexual feelings for someone of the same gender does it mean your bi/g

    To me it does. I started getting same-sex attraction quite early on and it has only grown since. But I never stopped feeling for girls either, so the label is natural. :slight_smile:
     
    #3 Argentwing, Mar 31, 2017
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    Re: If you have sexual feelings for someone of the same gender does it mean your bi/g

    It sounds like you are. If you have crushes on men and women, then you might be bisexual. There are the pansexual and polysexual labels as well, so don't forget to consider those as possibilities.
     
    #4 Eyerene, Apr 1, 2017
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    Re: If you have sexual feelings for someone of the same gender does it mean your bi/g

    Yes, you are bisexual. That's literally the only answer. Be awesome.

    Peace.
     
    #5 WeDreamOfPeace, Apr 1, 2017
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    Re: If you have sexual feelings for someone of the same gender does it mean your bi/g

    I'm romantically attracted to men and sexually to women
     
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    Re: If you have sexual feelings for someone of the same gender does it mean your bi/g

    Perhaps heteroromantic homosexual then.
     
    #7 Eyerene, Apr 2, 2017
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    Re: If you have sexual feelings for someone of the same gender does it mean your bi/g

    What's that
     
    #8 Shasta, Apr 3, 2017
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    Re: If you have sexual feelings for someone of the same gender does it mean your bi/g

    Heteroromanticism is when you have romantic feelings only for the opposite gender. In you case, male. Homosexualism is being gay, which I'm assuming you already know.
     
    #9 Eyerene, Apr 3, 2017
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    Re: If you have sexual feelings for someone of the same gender does it mean your bi/g

    Some people just say they're gay (homoromantic and homosexual), but others feel in different ways for different people. For example, biromantic homosexual would be romantically attracted to males and females, and sexually attracted to the same gender.
    I agree with Eyerene, it sounds like you're heteroromantic/homosexual.
     
    #10 juxlia, Apr 3, 2017
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