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Middle name opinions?

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Kodo, Mar 31, 2017.

  1. Kodo

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    My original idea was to go with David as a middle name, but I am not sure I'm keen on that anymore. Here were some more ideas, and I wanted to get your take on it, keeping in mind my first name is Alec:

    Joseph/Yosef
    James
    James Benedict
    Shiloh
    Jeremiah/Jeremi
    Simon
    Mathison
    Henry
    Lewis
    Charles

    I like traditional English names and also Biblical names (or derivatives). Also names that symbolize hope. Feel free to add more suggestions.
     
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    My favorite is Joseph :slight_smile: I also like James and Mathison. My suggestions are Emmanuel, Ezekiel, Matthias, Peter, Sebastian and Tobiah. Also St Jude Thaddeus is the patron saint of hope so I guess Jude or Thaddeus could be used to symbolize hope.
     
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    How many syllables is your last name? That would help me decide. But without knowing, I like Joseph, Henry and Lewis.
     
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    I agree with Ricky, the number of syllables would probably make my decision easier.
    I'd go with a longer middle name if your last name has one or two syllables, if it's a longer last name (3+ syllables) I'd probably chose a short middle name.

    Without knowing I'd go with Joseph, Jeremiah or Lewis.
     
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    My last name has two syllables and starts with an H. Sorry, I should have specified.
     
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    I like Joseph, Mathison and your first idea, David, best if it's in combination with a sample "H, two syllables"-surname. I wouldn't go for a second name which also starts with h.
     
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    I personally like Alec James H. or Alec Mathison H. or Alec Jeremiah H.

    Good luck finding a middle name.
     
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    I particularly like the name Elijah. To be honest i should probably come up with a more masculine middle name for myself. My middle name is Marney
     
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    I like how Alec James H. looks and sounds. Also reminds me of Alex James, the bassist for Blur.
     
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    I think Mathison has a nice ring to it.
     
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    I like 'Yosef'. For a suggestion, how about 'Mordecai'? It's Hebrew.
     
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    Charles sounds very refined and confident in my opinion, but to be honest your whole list looks wonderful.
     
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    This may be rehashing a bit, but I was mulling over ideas for my middle name and I didn't want to start a new thread for the same topic.

    See, i love the name Peter but my last name ends with -er so it sounds a little off if that is my middle name. However if I combine it with Odell, my father's middle name, we get Alec Peter Odell [last name].

    Or maybe I am over thinking? I just really wanted Peter to work. I do like Joseph as well, but it almost has too much of a religious feel to it for me and I have two brothers with very similar names.
     
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    I like the idea of Alec Peter Odell H. Maybe because I've done the same. Theodore is a name that has meaning for me and Anthony is a name that my mum would have chosen (and it's also my dad's middle name). Anthony ends in y like my last name, so I made my name Samuel Anthony Theodore H.

    Odell is a good name to add. The whole name flows quite nicely.
     
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    My favorite biblical names are Isaiah, Nehemiah, Elijah, and Ovadia. As evident by this, I prefer longer names, if this works for you.
     
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    I like Yosef but I'm biased because I'm a Jew
     
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    I have no idea how middle names work, but Yosef sounds really cool with your first name, so I'd go with that personally.
     
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    How often does a person use/say their full name (first, middle and last)? If you like the name Peter, which is nice, use it. I think it could work whether you use it by itself or with Odell (Peter-Odell).
     
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    I personally like Henry. Mainly because Henry VIII is my 2nd favourite king but also because I think Alec Henry has a nice flow.